Including dynamically linked libraries

[MichaelClerx]

At the moment cibuildwheel uses

• delocate to find dynamic linked libraries and include them in the wheels for macos
• auditwheel to do the same for windows

In the future it might use

• delvewheel to do the same for windows

So we need to

1. Check how this works out with licensing on mac & linux
2. Wait and see what happens for windows and maybe remove the sundials includes (which would be good, although not sure how adding them to path at runtime would work)