feat: Add --use-random-row for custom-query row validations

[nj1973]

Description of changes

This PR adds the options --use-random-row and --random-row-batch-size for custom-query row validations.

This PR also restricts the tested Python version to 3.11 because 3.9 and 3.10 are no longer available on the python-multi image. We'll need to prioritise the Ibis upgrade issue soon.

There are a good number of test file edits which were me fixing a typo, use_randow_row to use_random_row.

Issues to be closed

Closes #1448

Checklist

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[cofin]

LGTM.