Update to Windows launcher (2-6c17cc6) and move security manager flag from launcher to config

[mbien]

this PR implements SM removal step 2 of 3

1. remove SM flag from windows launcher and release new launcher bits
2. move flag to config and switch to new launcher bits
3. implement SM removal for JDK 24 compatibility

changes:

• binaries are taken from the integration workflow run of Remove java.security.manager=allow flag from windows launcher. #8009, see https://github.com/apache/netbeans/actions/runs/12656284985
• this does also move the JVM flag from launch script to config for linux/mac to have parity with the changes of the windows launcher
• (flag will be removed again in step 3)

uses currently a staged build, vote needs to happen before merge

[mbien]

#6933 was the last PR which updated the launcher I used as template

[neilcsmith-net]

Good for testing, but note that before vote this will need staging, alongside sources, at https://dist.apache.org/repos/dist/dev/netbeans/native/netbeans-launchers/2-6c17cc6/ including in this PR .. and it should be 2-6c17cc6. First number needs to be strictly incrementing, and also should match the number you incremented in the launcher build.

[mbien]

quick test with the dev-build artifact of this PR on windows:

NB launches fine on JDK 23 using the new launcher -> removing the flag from config causes launch failure -> flag is now set via config instead of win launcher -> works as intended

[mbien]

btw I think I will squash both commits before merge, since the flag move is one atomic change.

[mbien]

release is done, waiting for mirrors to sync so that I can push an update with the final link of the native launcher dependency so that we can integrate this + progress with step 3.

[mbien]

this got already tested by some during vote, merging so that I can continue with #7928