fix(quic): Improve Listener Socket Selection when Dialing

[momoshell]

Description

Implementation now mirrors the TCP transport's approach by maintaining a centralized registry of listening addresses. When dialing, the transport queries this registry to find a suitable listener socket that matches the destination's IP version and loopback status.

Related: #4259

Notes & open questions

It could be optimized further, where we could query the OS routing table to determine the optimal source IP for reaching a destination, then find a listener bound to that IP. This provides the most accurate routing decisions because the OS kernel knows all routes, VPNs, policies, etc.

Change checklist

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• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
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