[smf] Update manifests to reflect self assembling switch zone

[karencfv]

DO NOT MERGE - let's wait until release 8 is out the door

In Omicron, we are converting all zones to be self assembling. This means we are no longer having to boot the zone, configure zone networking, configure all the services and finally refresh each service.

For the switch zone we have two new services that configure common zone networking in oxidecomputer/omicron#5593. This PR adds these dependencies to the SMF files that require them, and sets the service default instance as enabled by default.

This PR should be merged in conjunction with oxidecomputer/omicron#5593

[karencfv]

Hmm, this test failure seems unrelated to my changes I think

error: you are using an explicit closure for cloning elements
   --> lldpd/src/interfaces.rs:146:5
    |
146 | /     g.interfaces
147 | |         .lock()
148 | |         .unwrap()
149 | |         .get(iface)
150 | |         .ok_or(LldpdError::Missing(format!("no such interface: {iface}")))
151 | |         .map(|i| i.clone())
    | |___________________________^
    |
    = help: for further information visit https://rust-lang.github.io/rust-clippy/master/index.html#map_clone
    = note: `-D clippy::map-clone` implied by `-D warnings`
    = help: to override `-D warnings` add `#[allow(clippy::map_clone)]`
help: consider calling the dedicated `cloned` method
    |
146 ~     g.interfaces
147 +         .lock()
148 +         .unwrap()
149 +         .get(iface)
150 +         .ok_or(LldpdError::Missing(format!("no such interface: {iface}"))).cloned()
    |

error: could not compile `lldpd` (bin "lldpd") due to 1 previous error